Are you newly single? Is it starting to get on your nerves? Do you find yourself obsessing over that moment when someone new might walk into your life and sweep you off your feet?

Snap out of it! I’ve got three awesome things you can do — right now! — to better occupy your time. (Because, we all know what happens when you least expect it.)

  1. Plan a series of small adventures. Break out of the norms of day-to-day life. Relish in the small wonders that surround you; if you’re having trouble finding inspiration — start with a walk. Trips to the beach, outside shopping destinations, and even a quaint little town you never thought to explore before… are all good ways to see new things, and meet new people.
  2. Get healthy. Khloé Kardashian once said, “The best form of revenge is a good body.” And, she wasn’t lying. But, a healthy mind and soul are also great places to start. This article, and this article will be super helpful in kickstarting the mind.
  3. Learn to enjoy the simple things. Put down your phone! Step away from the computer! Stop stalking them on Facebook, Instagram, and Twitter! And, make some time to truly enjoy life. This includes, but is not limited to spending time with friends, catching up with distant relatives, or even scheduling a “me day.”